Heading To The Other Direction
Bedor Alobaidi/ Interested to ask me a question? Please go ahead. I will be more than happy to do my best in answering if it's something related to my personal knowledge.
This life requires great risk-taking, such as free-falling into a deep sea without knowing how to swim. Dangerous risks and recklessness are what lead you to safety. A life sailing in calm currents has never brought you anything that makes your soul dance with joy. You have become accustomed to incomplete victories, temporary joys accompanied by long weariness, or perhaps the grief that obstructs your path is there to remind you that you must intentionally take yourself to the realm of risk in order to live the remaining days of your diminished life with some tranquility, calmness, and peace of mind.
There is no true happiness without mental stability. All the achievements and steps you have taken on your own, and perhaps achieved some of them and rejoiced for a brief moment, are inevitably lacking something or lacking in you in order to reach a stage of completeness or true and complete happiness. I am not talking about individuals, of course. They are the real obstacle to any individual's absolute happiness. Individual and remain individual until they meet souls that resemble them, so that they unite with your soul, celebrate with you, laugh, and have fun with you, not to deceive you, exploit you, or provide you with a temporary moment of happiness. I never acknowledge an expiration date or anything that must ultimately end at a certain point, time, or place. I know that whoever is reading these lines now is looking at me in a crazy way because of the way I write, perhaps because they are very happy and content with their continuous sadness, following the same path, and not being disturbed by any strange or foreign thoughts that go beyond their personal perceptions and plans they have set in this life or how they will spend the rest of their lives without making a significant difference or change that takes them to a better stage in various aspects. They haven't thought about themselves, that positive selfishness that every person striving for success in this life must possess. Professional success, mental success, cultural success, self-development, peace of mind, and health are all great achievements that cannot be dispensed with because of a person or a place that cannot appreciate or recognize our intellectual abilities that exist in their effective and rich role before material existence, and sometimes with the presence of both at the same time. The theory that life is short may be realized at some point in your life because of a passing advice, a phrase you read from your favorite writer, or an advertisement you see fleetingly while on your way to school, university, work, or a bar, or when you rush to pay the bills that compete with you in this life and share every moment of your life as if it were your companion, spouse, parent, child, or even cats and dogs. There remains a single bill that you have the choice to pay, and perhaps obliged to consider the considerations of attachment to a goal that does not come true, a dream that does not materialize, or a place that buries your identity, or people who do not make you feel a sense of belonging, but in many times make you feel like a stranger and unable to join their large groups, which become very narrow when it comes to you.
Therefore, in this case, you should choose who stays and who continues with you at the same level of mental compatibility, not based on the conditions and duration of attachment, the beautiful memories that often overshadow the ugly ones in many times. Therefore, you must plan your life and rearrange your priorities anew with every disappointment that is expected to happen, or perhaps if your behavior in the situation is different from what happened fundamentally. In any case, it happened by your will or despite it, and you cannot change anything, but what you can change is yourself, by adopting different behaviors and finding the appropriate alternative to the form or identity through which you want to find yourself, so that the new lifestyle is respected by everyone, and those who do not want to see such a renewed, advanced version of yourself, know that they are big obstacles in front of you, and gradually distance yourself mentally and emotionally until you completely cut off when you are ready to go to the other side of your journey towards personal success, and anyone who wants to share your success must be a supporter, not a stumbling block in your path or a source of continuous frustration and failures in your personal life or in general. Have a strong will and determination and challenge yourself to run towards your dreams and achieve your goals away from the distractions and chaotic environment created for you by those who failed in their lives or who no longer have a definition or identity. Their main concern is to compete with you instead of supporting and encouraging you, or they simply do not want to share your goals but rather belittle your ideas or ridicule them, or they may be of the category of people with sweet words that rarely result in concrete action in reality. Therefore, you must have an opportunity to create an opportunity out of nothing to do something of your own and create a different identity than the one imposed on you by society or the expectations of others. Embrace the risks and uncertainties that come with pursuing your own path, for it is in those moments of discomfort and fear that true growth and fulfillment can be found.
Remember, a life lived in fear is a life half-lived. Take the leap into the unknown, even if it means facing failure or disappointment. Embrace the challenges and setbacks as opportunities for learning and improvement. It is through these experiences that you will discover your true potential and find the courage to push beyond your limits.
Do not be afraid to stand out and be different. Society may try to mold you into a standard shape, but it is in embracing your uniqueness that you will find your true voice and make a meaningful impact in the world. Embrace your quirks, passions, and talents, and let them guide you towards a life that is truly authentic and fulfilling.
It is important to surround yourself with people who support and uplift you. Seek out those who believe in your dreams and encourage you to pursue them. Let go of toxic relationships and negative influences that hold you back or undermine your confidence. Surround yourself with a tribe of like-minded individuals who inspire and motivate you to reach for the stars.
Remember, the journey towards a fulfilling life is not always smooth sailing. There will be obstacles and setbacks along the way. But it is through perseverance and resilience that you will overcome these challenges and emerge stronger than ever. Embrace the risks, embrace the uncertainties, and embrace the unknown. For it is in stepping outside of your comfort zone that you will discover the true essence of life.
So, my dear friend, dare to take that leap of faith. Embrace the risks. Embrace the unknown. And create a life that is truly worth living.
How? Where and when?
Really simple
Dream, plan , and start doing.
Bedor Alobaidi
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