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We will be present in places, naturally or supposedly designated for everyone. But you will find yourself a stranger among everyone, regretting your presence there, especially when knowledge turns into ignorance and friends become strangers or enemies, hardly making a difference. I don't know how much complications, diseases, mental health issues, and grudges people carry within them, spreading those toxins in public places, hidden under the guise of being different from others. And by different, I don't mean physically, but morally and ethically. 

In the end, speaking for myself personally, I don't possess a magical tool to change people's ethics or rehabilitate them to become good human beings in their interactions. Nor do I want to classify societies and the patterns of individuals belonging to them. 

I mean everyone, without exception. There is an incomprehensible situation when you are the kind and proactive one, whose always taking the initiative to great someone first and be as friendly as possible when you cross paths with someone whose considered a friend or a connection, colleague and so on. And by being that kind of individual the other person believes that you are an easy being to overlook or marginalize in a way that suits them, without considering it as a purely ethical initiative or a good behavior from the initiating person.

I don't know the person or the misguided institution that accepts and be totally okay with embracing such cases and distorted psychological disorders and treating a well-mannered individual differently, wrongly, or attempting to belittle their importance or diminish their role in society. While the other person is not a perfect example or the highest standard, even if they have gone through harsh experiences, they should show a little familiarity and love, and respect even if it is just a representation towards others who do not have ill intentions towards a specific individual or another.

Because of this difficult, and sometimes complex, situation, one must be cautious about being overly kind. Unfortunately, I have to say that being a polite, respectful, and well-behaved person can bother many people around you, especially those who know you well in advance and then change their attitude towards you without any apparent reason and without prior warning.

So, being a respectful and polite person with a clean and uncorrupted behavior will be a burden to those who claim perfection as a facade and a lie, only in front of people with whom they are expected to have interests. 

Therefore, your benefit will be minimal or your contribution weak in front of those who have influence and connections in the social sphere in general. I will not specify or mention any specific social circle here. I am talking about a matter of principle with the utmost transparency and clarity. 

Bedor Alobaidi 

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